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Chapt er10: Sexual Expr essi on Hor monesandNeur ot r ansmi t t er s •bot hsex espr oducesest r ogenandt est ost er one -di ffer entamount sdecr eas ewi t hage •est r ogendecl i nei nol derwomen -sl owsgr owt hofvagi nalc el l s,whi cht hi nst hewal l ,i ncr easesdr yness,&decr easesvagi nal sensi t i v i t y( f orar ousal ) •t est ost er onel evel sr emai ncont est anti nagi ngwomen -mayi nc r eases exualdesi r e( l i bi do) •agi ngmenexper i encedec r easei nt est ost er one -candecr easesexualdes i r e,qual i t y&quant i t yer ect i ons Fami l yBackgr ound •wei nt er nal i zenor msaboutsexual at t i t udesandbehavi or sf r om f ami l yofor i gi n •chi l dr enwi t hmar r i edpar ent sar emor el i k el yt o: -havemor econs er v at i v eat t i t udesaboutsex -havewi t nes seddi spl aysofaffect i onbet weenpar ent s -havet al k edt opar ent saboutsex -havef ewerl i f et i mesexualpar t ner s Et hni ci t y •et hni c i t ycanaffec toursexual behavi or s ,f r equenc y ,at t i t udes ,communi cat i ons -whi t eandhi spani cwomenar emor el i k el yt hanbl ackwoment obei nv ol v edi nav ar i et yof sex ual behavi or s -whi t ewomenar emor el i k el yt hanbl ackorhi spani cwoment ogi v eandr ecei veor al sex -hi spani cwomenar emor el i k el yt oengagei nanal sext hanbl ackorwhi t ewomen -af r i canamer i canmenandwomenhav et hemostpar t ner s Rel i gi on •i ngener al ,t hemor er el i gi ouspeopl ear e: -t hemor ec onser vat i vet hei rsexualat t i t udesandbehavi or -t hel esst heyhav epr emar i t al i nt er cour se -t hel esst heyengagei nr i s kys exualbehavi or -t hel esst heyappr oveofor alsex -t hemor egui l tt heyex per i enceaboutsexual behavi or St udyi ngSexualResponse •sexualr espons e-ser i esofphysi ol ogi c alandps ychol ogi c alchangesdur i ngsexual behavi or •Mast er s&Johnson’ sFour PhaseSexualResponseCycl e -t hesexualr espons ecy cl ei nwomen -t hesexualr espons ecy cl ei nmen

•Hel enSi ngerKapl an’ sTr i phasi cModel •Davi dReed’ sEr ot i cSt i mul usPat hway Mast er s&Johnson’ sFour PhaseSexualResponseCycl e •f our phasemodel ofphy si ol ogi calchangest hatoccurdur i ngsexual behavi or ,r egar dl es sof sexual or i ent at i on •f ourphases: -exci t ement -pl at eau -or gasm -r es ol ut i on TheSexualResponseCycl ei nWomen •t i mei neachphaseofsexualr esponsevar i esamongwomen&wi t hmenst r ualcy cl e -mor et i mespentdur i ngar ous al i nf or epl aymayr esul ti ngr eat eror gasmi cr esponse •exci t ement :manyst i mul ii nduceex ci t ement -canl astmi nut est ohour s -vasocongest i on-i ncr eas edbl oodflowt ot hegeni t al sand/ orbr east s( speci fic al l ycl i t or i s ) -t r ansudat i on( vagi nall ubr i cat i on)occur swi t hi n30seconds ,l ongeri fl yi ngdown -t ent i ngeffect -vagi nalwal l sexpand •Exci t ementPhase -br east sandar eol asenl ar ge,ni ppl eser ect -f orchi l dl es swomen: •l abi amaj or at hi nandflat t enout •l abi ami nor at ur nsbr i ghtpi nkands wel l -f orwomenwhohavedel i ver edc hi l dr en: •qui ckvasoc onges t i on&enl ar gementofl abi amaj or a&mi nor a,c l i t or i smayer ect -sexflushonchestfir st ,t hens pr eads •Pl at eauPhase -mayl astbet ween30secondsand3mi nut es -br eastsi z econt i nuest oi ncr ease -cl i t or i sr et r act sbehi ndhoodshor t l ybef or eor gasm -cl i t or al hoodr ubbi ngandpul l i ngcausest heor gasm dur i ngsexuali nt er cour se -f orchi l dl es swomen: •flat t enedl abi amaj or aandr edl abi ami nor a -f orwomenwhohavedel i ver edc hi l dr en: •l abi amaj or aengor ge,t ur ndar kr ed -or gasm r el easespr essur ef r om v asocongest i on •Or gasm Phase -or gasmi cpl at f or m cr eat edi nl owert hi r dofv agi naf r om v asocongest i oni npel vi cr egi on -whent hevasocongest i v epr ess ur er eachesat hr eshol d,ar efl exofsur r oundi ngmuscl esi s t r i gger ed

-cont r ac t i onsexpel t hebl oodt r appedi ns ur r oundi ngt i ss uesandcausespl easur abl eor gasmi cs ensat i ons( my ot oni a) •cont r act i onspr i mar i l ybyut er i nemusc l es -or gasmi ccont r act i onsoccurever y0. 8seconds -ar e8t o15cont r ac t i onsi nwomen,t hefir st5t o6ar ef el tmostst r ongl y -beakbl oodpr essur eandr espi r at i onr at es -bodymayshudder ,j er kuncont r ol l abl y ,orspasm;f aci al gr i maci ng,gr oans -mayr educemenst r ual c r ampsbyexpel l i ngbl oodf r om t her egi on •hel pst or el i ev ebui l dupofpel vi cvasocongest i ont hatoccur sasasi deeffectofmenst r uat i on •Resol ut i onPhase -t ak esabout510mi nut es -bodyr et ur nst opr eex ci t ementcondi t i on -bl oodl eav est hegeni t al s,ni ppl eer ect i onsdi s si pat e,muscl esr el ax ,hear tandbr eat hi ng r at es -mul t i pl eor gasmswi t hf ur t herst i mul at i oni nsomewomen( 14% accor di ngt oKi nsey’ s st udy) -cl i t or i sr et ur nst oor i gi nal s i z ebutr emai nsext r emel ysensi t i v e Or gasms:RealorFake? •manywomenhavef akedor gasmsatsomepoi nti nt hei rl i v es •somewomenwhoneverhaveor gasmsr el yonf aki ngt hem •somewomencl ai mt heyf akeor gasm t oendsexualencount erormakepar t nerf eel good •womanorpar t nerunawar eofwhatwoul dhel pherr eac hor gasm •menar eal soabl et of ak eor gasm -most l ydur i ngv agi nali nt er cour s e;or alsext oo TheSexualResponseCycl ei nMen •t hef our pausesar el es sdefi nedi nmen •er ect i l edys f unct i on( ED) -di ffic ul t yget t i ngandmai nt ai ni nganer ect i on •Exci t ementPhase -of t env er yshor tphase -t umescence-v asocongest i v eswel l i ngoft hepeni s -er ect i oni sunst abl e -t est i cl esi ncr easebyabout50% i ns i z e -t est i cl esar epul l edcl osert ot hebody •dar t osandcr emast i cmusc l es •Pl at eauPhase -maydevel opasexfl ush -ni ppl eer ect i ons -gl anspeni sengor geswi t hbl ood -er ect i oni smor est abl e( di ffer sf r om ex ci t ementphase) -pr eej acul at or yfl ui dmayappearonheadofpeni s

•Or gas m Phase -ej acul at i ondoesnotal way saccompanyor gasm •or gasmswi t houtej acul at i on •or gasmsbef or eej acul at i ng •216or gasmsbef or eej acul at i onpossi bl e -i fej acul at i onoccur swi t hor gasm,t her ear e2st ages •St age1:wi t hi naf ewseconds;t hev asdef er ens,semi nalv esi cl es ,andpr os t at egl andcont r act :l eadi ngt oej acul at or yi nevi t abi l i t y( nol ongercont r ol l ed) •St age2:semeni sf or cedoutoft heur et hr abymuscl econt r act i onst hatoccurever y. 08 seconds ,t hefi r st34ar es t r onges t -somemencant eacht hemsel v est ohav emul t i pl eor gasmsbypr act i ci ngdel ayi ngandwi t hhol di ngej acul at i on •mast ur bat e,mast ur bat e,mast ur bat e •pr act i cer ef r ai ni ngf r om ej acul at i on -r api dej acul at i on-nothavi ngt heabi l i t yt ocont r olt i mi ngofej ac ul at i ondur i ngi nt er cour s e •Resol ut i onPhase -bodyr et ur nst opr ear ousalst at e -gl anspeni sdecr easesi nsi z e -r ef r act or ys t age-per i odi nwhi chmenc annotber est i mul at edt oor gasm •t i meper i odi nc r easesasmenage “ Bl ueBal l s”… Doesi tReal l yExi st ? •pai ni nt est i cl eswhens exualar ousali smai nt ai nedf orsi gni ficantt i meper i odandnotf ol l owed byor gasm •uncomf or t abl epr essur ei ngeni t al sf r om vasocongest i on •r el i evedt hr oughmast ur bat i on •womenexper i ence“ pi nkov ar i es” -sexual l yar ous edanddonotr eachor gasm -pr essur e,pai n,bl oat i ngi npel vi cr egi on -r el i evedt hr oughmast ur bat i on Hel enSi ngerKapl an’ sTr i phasi cModel •sexualr esponsest ar t swi t hpsy chol ogi cal component( sexualdesi r e) •Thr eephases : •desi r ei spsy chol ogi c al phase -depr essi on,pai n,f ear ,anxi et y ,medi cat i onsorpas tsexualabusecanbl ockdesi r e •ex ci t ementi sphysi ol ogi cal phase •or gasm i sphys i ol ogi calphase •physi ol ogi calphasesi nv ol vegeni t alvasocongest i onandmusc ul arcont r act i ons Davi dReed’ sEr ot i cSt i mul usPat hway •Reed’ sEr ot i cSt i mul usPat hway( ESP) -4phases: •seduc t i on( apsy chosoci alphase)( whatt heper son’ swear i nget c . . ) •sensat i on( aps y chosoci alphase)( sound,t oucht as t e)

•sur r ender( or gasm) •r eflect i on( r eflec tonexper i ence) -basedonMast er s&Johnson’ sModel Fut ur eDi r ect i onsi nSexualResponseModel s •Leonor eTi ef er ’ sNewVi ewModel -manyi mpor t antaspect sofs exual i t y •pl eas ur e,emot i onal i t y ,sens ual i t y ,cul t ur al di ffer ences,poweri ssues,communi cat i on -women’ ssexual exper i encesdon’ tnear l yfiti nt oMast er s&Johnson’ sModel -Basson’ sar guest hatnonsexualdi st r act i onsofl i f ei nt er f er ewi t hwomen’ sar ousal •womendonotf eel spont aneous •desi r ef ori nt i macymayl eadhert os eekoutsexualst i mul i Or alSex •cunni l i ngus-or al sexonawoman •f el l at i o-or al sexonaman •“ 69” -mut ual or al sex •ani l i ngus( r i mmi ng) -or alst i mul at i onoft heanus -hygi enepr act i cesar ei mpor t antt or educepossi bl es pr eadofi nf ect i ons •manyengagei nor al sexbef or efir sti nt er cour se •mostwoul dr at herr ecei ve ,t hangi v e,or al sex •or alsexi sof t enusedaspar toff or epl ay Vagi nalI nt er cour se •por nogr aphyr ei nf or cest hei deat hatwomenl i k ef astandr ought hr ust i ng -l ongert hr ust i ngdoesnotmeanawomeni scl osert oanor gasm •het er osexual i nt er cour set ypi cal l yl ast sf r om 3t o13mi nut es •mostpeopl edonotmakeeyecont acti ni nt i mat esi t uat i ons •i nt er f emor ali nt er cour se-r ubbi ngt hepeni si nbet weent het hi ghsofy ourpar t ner Posi t i onsf orVagi nalI nt er cour se •t her ear emanyposi t i onsf ori nt er cour se •eachhasadvant agesanddi s adv ant ages •f ourmai nposi t i onsar e: -mal eont op -f emal eont op -si deby si de -r ear ent r y Mal eonTop •“ mi ssi onar y ” ,or“ mal esuper i or ” •mal econt r ol st het hr ust i ng •advant ages:ey econt act ,ki s si ng,huggi ng,mosteffec t i vef orpr ocr eat i on

•di sadvant ages: -uncomf or t abl ei fobeseorpr egnant -( l ar ge)peni scanbumpt hec er vi x -di fficul tt ost i mul at et hecl i t or i s -manmustsuppor thi swei ght -di fficul t i esi ncont r ol l i nger ect i onandej acul at i on Femal eonTop •“ f emal esuper i or ” •advant ages:womanhasgr eat ercont r ol ,cl i t or alst i mul at i on,herpar t ner ’ shandsar ef r eef or f ur t herst i mul at i on,ey econt act ,ki ssi ng,huggi ng •di sadvant ages -somewomenmaybeuncomf or t abl ebei ngi nanact i v er ol e -somemenmaybeuncomf or t abl ewi t ht hei rpar t neri ncont r ol -t endst obel essst i mul at i ngf ort heman Si debySi de •advant ages: -cant ak ei tsl owandext endi nt er cour s e -handsf r eef orcar essi ngeachot her -eyecont act ,k i ss i ng,t al ki ng •di sadvant ages: -di fficul t i eswi t hpenet r at i on -keepmoment um goi ng -deeppenet r at i on Rear Ent r y •onevar i at i oni s“ doggi est yl e”

•advant ages: -canbef astorsl ow -pr ovi desoppor t uni t yf orcl i t or alst i mul at i onbyei t herpar t ner -maydi r ect l ys t i mul at et heGspot -hel pst hosewhoar eover wei ghtorobese AnalI nt er cour se •pr act i cedbymenandwomenofal l sex ual or i ent at i ons •mayl eadt oor gasm,especi al l ywi t hsi mul t aneouscl i t or alorpeni l est i mul at i on •1/ 4ofadul t shav ehadanal sexatl eastonce •l ubr i cat i oni sr equi r ed;t het i ssuei sf r agi l eanddoesnots el f l ubr i cat e •analsphi nct erneedst ober el ax ed •oneoft her i ski es tsexual behavi or s...