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Quoc Phong, Le (Sam) ESL A099 THREE CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP Nowadays, teenagers are easy to get involved in a bad relationship which they themselves did not recognize until they are warned by an expert. The characteristics of an intimate relationship are behavioral interdependence, which means that what each person in the relationship does has an impact on the other’s life. We can consider three outstanding characteristics which will influence your relationships. Human was created by fullfillment need, and this is the fundamental human needs. We fulfill our need for intimacy which means we feel we can share our feelings. Their everyday life intertwines with each other. For example, my aunt goes to work, so my uncle misses her and vice versa. This becomes stronger as time passes if they are still attracted by each other. This evidence firstly demonstrates their love. The second element which is the most important for couple who felt in love is social intergration in which we can share our problems and worries. This characteristic is based on trust which is establised by the time that the couple spent together. Besides, listening skill takes place a significant role in understanding each other. Maybe practicing better listening skills would help. Also not being afraid to recognize if and when you are wrong and recognizing what you could have done differently can also help in future intimacy. My parent usually spend time together and share about their worries, their thoughts; maybe it does not help them in firguring out any solution but they still feel warm and empathetic. All in all, I believe that communication is the key to establishing a great relationship. And the last one is the assistance in which we have someone we can rely on in times of despair. It is helpful in reminding oneself of her/his importance and help each other have

confidence and self-esteem. For example, my brother sometimes feels disapointed because he makes some mistakes in his business so he need a person who understands and sympathizes. His girlfriend come and sit besides him, she listen and rise him up. This actually works in case of his girlfriend. Hence, lack of this factor can all form barriers to our intimacy relationship so learning better communication skills and learning more about yourself can help in removing all of these barriers. All of these characteristics are important in relationship development so that we can have a healthy relationship. Any lack of a characteristic could be a sign that the relationship is unhealthy. Others, we still have social support which comes from our friends and our family. Maybe you will get support from your best friend to find life again when you was at your most lowest points....