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Intrapersonal skills are set of abilities that someone possesses in knowing, understanding and managing his own emotions and mind. The more intrapersonal skills you have, the more balanced you become. There is no doubt that we might have good in some skills and not adept in others, yet you can improve or develop those skills through continuous learning and training because the opportunities are limitless. Meanwhile for interpersonal skills are traits you rely on when you interact and communicate with others. They cover a variety of scenarios where communication and cooperation are essential. These skills involve the ability to communicate and build relationships with others. Often called people skills, they tend to incorporate both your innate personality traits and how you’ve learned to handle certain social situations. Interpersonal and intrapersonal skills are highly related in that both are part of your emotional intelligence. Intrapersonal communication is kind of like a conversation that takes place within one’s own self, while interpersonal communication is all about communication with other people. Intrapersonal

involved

self-management,

attitude,

self-concept,

motivation

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perseverance. When you have strong intrapersonal skills, you take personal responsibility for your own feelings and emotions. This mind set is also known as intrapersonal intelligence. You learn how to focus your attention, set priorities and goals, and engage in purposeful thinking and problem-solving. When something goes differently than you expect, you know how to respond with a thoughtful, intentional strategy to achieve a positive outcome. Positive attitude can affect your life in a good way same goes if you have a negative attitude. As for me, I have this attitude where I don’t really care what others say about me because it just a waste of time to think what others have to say plus I cannot control what other people want to think so I let them think whatever they want. If you let other people control how you see yourself, it might make you lose your confidence. It is best if you just ignore what others have to say about you. For example, Ustaz Ebit Lew really love to give to other people. This is because he knew and understand how it felt when you don’t have anything or money to eat. Besides that, interpersonal involved of human relation abilities end skills, managing conflict and anger. Effective communication is part of the winning personality and the mastery of

relationships. Communication can make or break a relationship. A good communication can lead to many good things. I strongly agree the quote that say “communication is the key”, this is because with communication we can understand other better and can avoid unnecessary misunderstanding. Communication can only become better if each party would try to understand what other party trying to tell rather than to hear just because wanted to reply. There are two type of communication. Verbal communication involves the use of words, speech or auditory language to express emotions, thoughts or exchange information. In addition, non-verbal communication involves the use of visual or non-verbal cues such as facial expressions, eye or body movements, gestures, and many more without speaking. For example, if I don’t like anything or any action that someone do I will try to tell them but in a good manner without trying to hurt their feeling. If I did not tell them then how would they know? After all, communication is really important in our life. Without communication how would we know about something that someone else are thinking. As conclusion, considering that human beings do not exist in isolation, it is an important requirement that everyone should build and strengthen both intrapersonal and interpersonal skills. Both intrapersonal and interpersonal skills are crucial and important skills that we need to master in our life. Both skills can help and improve our relationship with other including relationship, friendship, working life and many more....